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| Author | Topic: i hate my husband for doint it! |
| louise |
posted 6/21/08 10:07 AM
i lost all respect for my husband for doing it in cork, im really hurt, i think its a reflection on our marriage that he needed to be around other naked men and women, im really hurting, i feel he has had an affair;( |
| mikec |
posted 6/21/08 11:25 AM
if you cared to read of people's experiences here you would realise, hopefully, that you are way off beam. why are you looking at the spencer tunick message board anyway? maybe you are just a troll? mike |
| Arch |
posted 6/21/08 12:52 AM
You should've gone with him and seen for yourself. I've just returned from the Dublin installation, and there was nothing sexual in the air, but great camaraderie. |
| corkguy |
posted 6/21/08 1:39 PM
Louise: Please chill out, please. I didnt get to Blarney and am reaaly sorry I couldnt go but did Dublin this morning. It was catharcic, great fun, not at all sexual, cold, wet but what an experience. My wife probably feels the same as you (I havent confirmed with her yet - she's in Cork for the weekend!!) but I will tell her she should have done it, we both should have done it together. It was great to see all the couples of all ages there, just having fun. Nothing more, nothing less. I just wish my wife had been there. But next time, she will be, and so will you Louise! Life is for living. |
| louise |
posted 6/21/08 6:51 PM
re- mikec post- i have read peoples experience- thank you very much! are you telling me that no body got turned on by boobs,dicks or womens private parts? did you not get a trill out of it i bet you are single hey mike?? |
| louise |
posted 6/21/08 6:53 PM
by the way mike Troll is not in my vocabularly. |
| D |
posted 6/22/08 2:36 PM
god I can't believe Louise. That's a ridiculous attitude to have about it. Didn't make it to the cork one and am gutted I wasn't involved will be keeping an eye out for further installations |
| mikec |
posted 6/22/08 2:56 PM
Louise. Assuming you are not a troll - it was just a thought because what you were saying was a bit freaky - I am sorry that you were selfish enough to object to your husband going and having a liberating fun experience, clearly something you need too. It is 100% irrelevant because the whole thing has bugger all to do with sex, but in fact, as you ask, I've been with the same lady for decades! She was in Cork with me but has not been well and was too tired to get up at 2am, needing her sleep very badly. But it would not have occurred to her in a million years to ask me not to go. mikec |
| PatB71 |
posted 6/23/08 9:39 AM
Have to agree with previous posts,this was in no way sexual.I went with the full blessing of my wife,even though she wouldn`t do it herself.If i wanted to see naked women i can think of easier and less painful ways to do it!! |
| Gil |
posted 6/24/08 11:13 PM
Louise, It is a shame that you feel that you can't respect your husband any more. I have met many people on installations. Many couples participate, many married men and women participate without their spouses. I met two married women who were in Blarney without their husbands, and my wife has no qualms about me participating either. And no, people do not get turned on at installations, and nothing sexual ever takes place. I may be bold to suggest that you feel the way you do because you didn't participate as well. Talk to your husband, and keep an open mind. Most important, I think you can reinstate your respect for him, because he has done something rather brave. Maybe next time you'll join him. Gil. http://spencertunickforum.org/ 189403 |
| peter |
posted 3/29/09 8:39 PM
my wife was the same after she found out i took part in newcastle shoot i must admit i was so fueled up with a good feeling afterwards i left her to scream fo 300 miles at me as i drove along the motorway she got over it eventually |
| Robert |
posted 6/2/09 1:50 PM
Louise, I am afraid, that (even being unpopular in this forum) I must say I do agree with you. The naked body is something very private. Actually, it is the most private thing a person may have. It indicates a strange personality the one that share it with anyone on the street, on internet forums and tv reports. It is normal that you want your husband only shares his naked body with you (as you will do with him), otherwise it would mean you don't love him deeple enough. Going to those kind of events is like breaking a vow with someone's husband/wife (I do think the same about going to a nudist center, for instante). Although some other people have suggested that to you, going both of you does not change anything at all. You (both) would have open your inner self to anyone, devaluating that special point to be shared among you. And obviously, I do understand it is disappointing. Having saying that, I think you should forgive your husband and make him to know that for you, it is VERY important that he does not share with anyother one what do you think it should be exclusive of your marriage. I hope that, step by step, you get to make him know that as sexual relations are exclusive of a couple, naked bodies, as many other expressions of intimacy should be kept in privacy. |
| PatB71 |
posted 6/9/09 10:23 AM
Sorry Robert but I have to disagree,I am happily married and did this shoot with the full backing of my wife,I take great offence that you should say that I`m breaking the vow of marriage in taking part in this,I did not cheat on my wife by doing this and she probably respects me more for doing it as she didn`t feel brave enough to do it.She realises it was a chance to take part in something special,something to look back at in later years and smile about.I received my print yesterday and it will take pride of place in my home. |
| music man |
posted 6/9/09 12:15 AM
here here peter my wife said the same she thought i was mad but said go for it anyway she wasn't well that weekend but would have probably done the smaller instalation on the sunday morning was great to get print yesterday i still get a buzz thinking about last year |
| Laura |
posted 6/27/09 0:30 AM
PatB, I have to agree with Robert. The question of breaking a vow is not a question of cheating, is that it matters, it is in the roots of the wedlock, and they can be observed or neglected with or without knowledge of the other part. Going to another example (please do not misunderstand me, I am not saying that the facts are the same, nor than one implies the other one): You may agree with your spouse to have more sexual partners. So, you are not cheating him/her, if you mantain sexual relations with third people. But, it supposes breaking the promises that underlie "marriage". |
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| ppp |
posted 11/11/11 4:53 PM
Public nudity can mean different things to different people. To me, among other things, clothing represents a false image of what we all are. We live this untruth daily -we are "used to it" but one day of truth sounds positively therapeutic to me. Living with and or having to constantly defuse society's ( church, governments commerse...)lies robs us of energy and the ability to live in harmony with nature. |
| jonquil |
posted 11/27/11 8:50 AM
I participated in the Dead Sea installation. Conditions were difficult, but it was fun to be there. To Louise: group nudity is not about sexual frustration. While we can't help but look at attractive people, clothed, or nude, there are too many to focus on any one. There is also an etiquette about how to behave. My report is here:http://trifter.com/asia- pacific/jordan/spencer-tunicks-dead-sea- installation-an-insiders-view/ |
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