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| Author | Topic: they want me to leave her |
| john carlson |
posted 12/18/03 4:12 PM
every guyand some women think i should only give my ex wife child support. .the truth is she doesn't make enough money to live on i still pay for every thing cus i want to not cus of a court order. we are not divored yet .. alll the guy get mad at me for not filing i tell the m that she wants it let her do it. they get mad cus i pay for every thing for her . if i didn't she would be on the street with the kids i love my ex wife as much if not more but she still wants out . ok well there nothing i can do about it . but i want to take care of them . thats that.. i don't care what any one says i madew her a promise i am keeping it . |
| valerie |
posted 1/14/04 5:47 AM
can't she get another job to support herself and her children? Is she using you? |
| Kelly |
posted 1/10/05 3:38 PM
If that is what you are comfortable doing then that is up to you but I don't see how you will ever get on with your life if this continues. I can tell you from a woman's point of view any new relationship you may hope to have will never be able to handle this. Also, your first wife will never get on with her life if she is always leaning on you. |
| lisa |
posted 7/16/05 6:31 AM
are you crazy where is your self-esteem she is using you and you are letting her she will allways take from you if you let her why should she come back to you ..you are giving her everthing right now .thats right if you find someone new they will not put up with it .. i know because im that new person he was giving everything to her intil i came along and put my foot down.. the way i see it im laying in his bed why should she get whats mine!!!! |
| Dara |
posted 10/29/07 4:28 AM
I'm the new person (wife) too and believe me SHE IS USING YOU !!! My husband's ex-wife has been married and divorced 4 times (he was # 2) She is now getting married for a fifth time. She is only 36 years old. She is a user too. When the money runs out, so does she. Someone new to the situation can see it more clearly than someone too closely involved in every detail of the situation. |
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