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peggy
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posted 12/17/07 8:21 PM
I divorced my children’s father in January of 2000. From that day on, we used to communicate openly involving any decisions about our two children: school issues, medical appointments, any unexpected changes in visitation days and any other issue that concerned our children’s welfare. Our children are 8 and 10 years old. Starting a few months back the relationship between their father and I has been nonexistent. He has remarried and has two children with his wife. He and his wife have decided that we should not speak to each other and that any arrangements should be made through her. Furthermore, everything has to be communicated via e-mail, and these communications are read by her and it is she who calls me. Mi ex husband considers that everything concerning our children has to go through his wife and he requires me to have a personal e-mail address in order to comply with his request. I used to use my office e-mail address; this address has been cancelled by my office because it was being used for other things besides planning my children’s days. My children are now in the middle of this mess. I do not feel that we should use his wife as a mediator in issues concerning our children. My ex husband’s wife would send me e-mails telling what and should and should not do. For our children’s sake I have been asking him to speak to me directly about any arrangements regarding our children. They refuse to accept my request. Could I request through the court the help of a neutral mediator to help us solve this problem? I am requesting this for my children’s welfare. He is a good father. I am desperate, this situation is affecting me and my children tremendously; they are suffering unnecessarily with these circumstances. What can I do?
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