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| Author | Topic: 2nd wife jealous of 1st wife |
| stephanie |
posted 1/5/06 4:46 PM
ok my problem is i married a man with 2 kids from his first marriage i also have 2 kids but the difference is my 1st husband was killed.So i have no ex to deal with But my husband on the other hand has custody of both of his kids there mom does nothing to help us out at all not on school stuff nothing and of course the kids think she is the best when it is us that does everything for them. I know i am jealous of her anytime she wants him to meet her to get the kids she has them call him so of course he does it saying he's not doing for her the kids asked him also there have been a few times when we were gone and the kids let her in my house which is not ok with me and my husbands responce is i can't say anything to the kids because that is there mom well his kids are 15 and 12 and i feel he should say this is not just my home and it is not ok for her to be in our house while we are gone. Am i wrong for feeling this way? I can't help the jealous feelings that go through me plus it just adds more stress my first husband has only been gone 2 1/2 years and i am already remarried. I guess i just can't see how a mother could just leave her kids with there father at such a young age the kids were 1 & 4 and all she wanted was a party life and they think she is great she does nothing except i am sure of this talk about me. Please tell me if i am going overboard. |
| lisa |
posted 4/5/06 7:13 PM
You are not crazy, my husbands ex is destroying our marriage. Our situations are very much alike, two kids, etc. My child is grown and doesn't live with us. i am at the end of my rope, I don't think I can handle anymore. |
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