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BEE
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posted 9/6/05 9:29 PM
My boyfriend has been divorced for 4 1/2 years because she had a affair with a married man & filed for a divorce. My boyfriend pays $1,500.00 in child support plus pays her alimony of $1,500.00. He moved out of state & for (2)1/2 years he flew back & forth every other weekend. Finally, he received a job offer out of state to make more money to pay her the monthly amount plus insurance & 90% of medical expenses. She takes each child to the doctors office 2 to 3 times a week & anything she can think of to attempt to frustrate him. It is hard for me to understand why a women would file for a divorce with (3) kids & works only 20 hours a weeks at a rate of $7.00 hourly. I find this totally insane. Why does a women utilize there kids to attempt to get under a man she chose to divorce. She does not take them to church, have them in after school activities, buy them clothes like most single parents do much less even buy a candy bar at the grocery store for the kids. we recently got engaged but I am really beginning to have second thoughts about it due to this womans behavior. is she just a scorned woman or what. I know individuals make mistakes & realize what they did, but sooner or later most normal people move on. is this woman nuts? Scorned? psychotic? or what? it is very hard to understand her abnormal behavior & the way the kids are raised with her. Does not cook for the kids & the older child (15 yr.old) raises younger boy.
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