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| Author | Topic: Wyles Mallo, February 28, 1981 - July 24, 2004 |
| CmcD |
posted 7/28/04 9:24 PM
Please share your memories below... |
| realiso |
posted 7/28/04 11:18 PM
Wyles you will be in our hearts forever. The world will never be the same without the flava in my ear. Now you sit beside Crom, until we meet agin farewell my friend... |
| Buzz |
posted 7/29/04 1:42 PM
You will always be remembered...I can remember sitting up in your "palace" over on Highland doing illegal stuff. No matter who was sitting in your favorite chair, you kicked them out and let me sit there. It then became "Buzz's Chair." Until we meet again my man... |
| Gembala |
posted 7/29/04 2:01 PM
Wyles - what else is there to say but you'll be dearly missed...everyday, all day, for the rest of our lives. We will attempt to live this life the way you believed, as you will be in all of our hearts. So as you sit at the right hand of Crom we say, Good night sweet prince. |
| juice |
posted 7/29/04 4:09 PM
Mallo - You were the funniest bastard alive, our lives will never be the same without you. You will be in our hearts, minds, and jack shots forever, and missed everyday. Love ya man, till we meet again. |
| Sports Dude |
posted 7/29/04 4:12 PM
Wyles Mallo, you were an awesome dude and will be missed dearly. I'm glad we became friends over the past few years. The 1 tuff family will never be the same. Flava Tribe will forever be in my CD player. |
| Jill Mally |
posted 7/29/04 10:39 PM
I just wanted to thank all of you so very much for your amazing outpouring of love and support towards our familly and especially for my Brother and Sister-in-law, Ira and Ossie. As many of you know by now, Steve's middle name, Jesse, was for another brilliant, loving person, whose life was cut short, way, way, too soon. And in a miserable twist of fate, also in a car accident, 25 years ago. Ira was the one who called me back then with the news that my only sister had been killed. And on Sunday morning, he called me, with this terrible, sick news that his only son, my favorite nephew (sorry Jason & Michael if you're reading this :) was gone. I thought lightening would never strike twice at our familly. We had already lost our brightest, best, and most noble...or so we thought...until Stevie came into our lives. He was the sweetest little boy that ever lived. And believe me, this is coming from someone who, much like WC Fields, can't stand Dogs or Kids. Steve gave our grieving familly hope again, and he and Melissa were such wonderful friends. So unlike most siblings you meet. I looked forward to the holidays when Ira & Steve would stage improptu WWF take downs in the middle of the livingroom. And Steve and I would talk about Indie Movies, Music, and our Cats, and I would marvel about how much his subtle sense of humour reminds me of Ira's. It breaks my heart to see Ira and Ossie in so much pain and to hear my parents, Steve's Grandparents, saying that they should be down here for a Wedding, not a funeral. But you guys, with all the love, and funny stories you've shared have helped enormously. I would have told you this in person, but It was taking everything I had not to fall to pieces. And I wanted to be strong for my Parents, for Ira & Ossie, and especially for Melissa, since I know better than anyone, what she is going through. We are all united in our love of Steve, and our concern for Ira, Ossie, Jack, and Melissa. And to help them through this sadness. So keep visiting and sharing your stories. Because they really do think of all of you as Steve's adopted brothers. The saddest thing that could ever happen in that house is to let the laughter die with Steve! So come and share your joys and triumphs with us all. Thanks Again and Stay Safe! xoxo "Aunt Jill" |
| Ruth Mally |
posted 7/30/04 9:41 PM
AN ODE TO OUR GRANDSON STEVE From the moment we saw him he captured our hearts He was a sweet little boy And he was very smart That's just an accolade All Grandparents convey But as he grew, he proved special in every way He lived in a home- 3 generations who taught him compassion he learned regeneration As he approached his teens, and even when younger He collected many friends and left no one assunder He excelled in sports wrote music too played guitar with his band and sung with them too This was an outlet to have some fun But he was serious and never from resposibilities did run In the years that followed from High school through college He kept gathering People Not just more knowledge His accomplishments will live in the hearts of his friends They will gather and feel all the love that he sends As his Grandma and Grandpa we have our memories also We enjoyed his endeavors as we watched him grow So I leave you this little tribute of love To the Man, To the Boy He was always our Joy His Parents are Great, his Sister is too, We celebrate Steve, We will not be blue! Drink to his life Raise your glasses high He is now part of the wind The sun and the sky! |
| pugilist at rest |
posted 8/1/04 3:07 AM
Mally- All my thoughts are echoed in what has already been stated above. Hell, it was summed up nicely at the cementary when Ben properly stated you were "The Best". Steve, I imagine you sitting on the right hand side of Crom, dressed as a warrior, watching over all of us. If I need my enemies crushed, driven or women lamentated (?) I know who to ask. Langino |
| Bryan & Tara Levick |
posted 8/3/04 2:52 PM
I am Melissa's brother-in-law, she is married to my brother Gary. I did not know Steve all that well, but that does not mean I do not understand the magnitude of what he meant to all he came across. Judging by the outpouring of emotion by all who attended the services it is clear to see exactly what type of human being Steve truly was and will always be. I can only hope to have a tiny percentage of people in my life who care about me the way Steve's friends and family cared for him. We shared one very valuable thing together and that we are both Melissa's son Alexs' uncle. I honestly feel honored to be able to share that title with him. My wife and I along with our 2 year old daughter drove up from Alabama to attend the services and to help comfort Melissa and we were overwhelmed by the amount of people who came to pay respects to the Mally family. That is truly a testament to the impact Steve had on people and that impact will be felt for years to come. When I think of Steve, I remember that he always had a smile on his face and a kind word top offer. The world has truly lost a fantastic human being and we should all strive to be the type of person Steven was. |
| CmcD |
posted 8/3/04 8:18 PM
Malzone, Much like most of us that were close to you, I lost a piece of myself a week and a half ago. Since then we've floated through the days and laid restless at night. Our current state is that of confusion, disbelief, and pain. But as everyone that's cared has said, it will pass though never fully disappear. If it were at all possible to listen to more Flava Tribe than I already had, I have over the past week. That part of our lives can never be lost. We were a team, and now my "studio" sits empty and longing for the chaotic sounds that once freely screamed from your trusty ax and our rusty vocals. Our website, which we so shamelessly promoted, will attempt to serve as a worthy remembrance of all that you stood for (namely Conan, Tom Combs, and your loving eyebrows you so quickly raised towards unknowing females). My one solace these days is in knowing that prior to your passing we were as tight as hetero rhyme partners can be...I could never escape your Out of Service CW Post phone calls and you my incessant text messages. Flava Tribe went out with a frenzied live performance and you left us all smiling and yearning for more. I can only hope that my future actions please you and that you watch over me as much as your sure-to-be busy schedule allows. And you can be sure that I won't stop photoshopping your head onto a myriad of strange subjects, i know you wouldn't want it any other way. In the end, I hope you master playing No Reservations so that our Native American brothers can cheer us on in concert and, most importantly, I hope that one day I can see my friend again. You will always be on my mind, because as the song (which you never knew the correct title to) says, "...I won't forget to put roses on your grave." Rest easy Wyles...the flava will never cease, nor will the memories. |
| Gary Levick |
posted 8/7/04 3:12 AM
This site has been a great tribute to Steve and has provided great support for Melissa. The one thing that I remember about Steve is that he was always happy and in a good mood. I find myself thinking about him at different times everyday whether it be driving or today it was in the gym. He touched so many lives and that is something not too many people can do. In honor of him I have thought about starting a memorial golf outing for him in a name of a charity that we can all come up with. This year we don't have enough time to set up but we can start it next year. We can play a round this year to see who would be interested. Let me know who would be interested in playing this year. I am thinking of september 18th. Post your thoughts. |
| Emma McD |
posted 8/8/04 1:51 PM
There's a sadness hanging over me..... I will miss coming home and hearing Steve and Conor sing upstairs in the "studio"; I will miss his impromptu staying for dinner; I will miss his warm, gentle smile. My heart breaks for the sadness that "the Band of brothers" is experiencing- it will lessen over time. You were all so fortunate to have had such a friend...and he was fortunate to have all of you. You are a great bunch of guys and Steve will live on through you |
| i mallo |
posted 8/14/04 10:53 AM
new info on accidents true cause.check web for unintended sudden acceleration related to nissan. as i begin to come to grips with my sons passing i hope to write more. |
| Iss |
posted 8/17/04 6:50 PM
Mallo, Everyday I think about what I want to say, and it just gets harder. A few sentences can not describe the impact you had on my life and everyone around you. I had one friend tell me that even though you're not here, you're now our guardian angel watching over us all. I like that. I know that many of us aren't sure how we feel about organized religion, some of us don't even believe in God. I don't know where I stand these days, but I do know that I believe in you. So I will continue to talk to you, write about you, and remember all of your stories; and when I'm faced with something I don't have an answer to, a tough choice or decision, I'll think about what you would have done. You're always with me man. Until we meet again. Adam |
| Gembala |
posted 8/18/04 3:44 PM
Well, it's been more then a couple of weeks now and the shock has finally subsided, at least somewhat. We are now all left with the one sobering realization that we must all face. I'm sure that everyone of us knows the feeling - and it's a feeling that won't go away anytime soon. I find comfort in the thoughts Iss had and agree that Mally is looking down at all of us and we must never forget that. I laid awake last night thinking about that and although it isn't as easy as giving him a call to go out on the town or after a crazy night going out to the Dragon Gate for some swanky sushi cuisine - -but he is there, listening and watching over us. We'll never forget you Mallo and you will always be in my thoughts...the next round of Jack is on me. |
| NK |
posted 8/20/04 11:30 PM
Mallo, For all the times on Highland, this one is for you.... Time it was, and what a time it was, it was A time of innocence, a time of confidences Long ago, it must be, I have a photograph Preserve your memories; They're all that's left you ~Simon and Garfunkel |
| Tommy B |
posted 8/25/04 4:07 AM
Stevie- I can't believe it has been a month since you left us; it feels like yesterday when C McD & I bumped into you outside of Christoph's. I've kept to myself a lot these past 4 weeks trying to sort through my emotions and find some meaning behind all of this. A complete meaning still escapes me but I do know that God has much bigger plans for you and can only imagine what grand destiny had been awaiting your arrival. I find myself confiding in you on many sleepless nights Mallo, your laughter still echoing through my head. Words can't describe the impact our friendship has had on my life, all of our lifes. You still are a great man & a champion; your stories, jokes, and dreams will live on through all of us and we can only strive to have a fraction of the influence that you had on this world. I miss you buddy- B O C |
| kelly |
posted 8/25/04 7:27 PM
since i can no longer show or tell you into your smiling face how i love and miss you ever so much. like many of us fanatics you've left behind, i take comfort in hoping one day we'll be reunited, and also in knowing that you've left me with the most special memories. we are your fans steve, beacause we've always admired you for your keenness, your artistic skill for langauge and the written word(and spanish curse words). you've left your legacy in your lyrics, in your stories and proses. we are your fans because you were born with an old musical soul and advantageously became a talented musician. we amdire your ingenuity,and ridiculous sense of humor, which has made all of us laugh until we've cried. some of us marvel at your flawless physique and wonder why we too cannot be built like greek gods? why are there so few people like you put on this earth? why can't we have one last memory to share with you? i can't answer why god would gift us with someone so unique and beautiful from inside and throughout, from beginning to end only to take him away. but, i know you gave life your all, you gave your heart to those who would open theirs, you shared your friendship and illuminating spirit with everyone. i can't ever forget, i can't ever regret a thing. i can and will always live my life in honor of you and in dedication to your soul. it's all so complicated and surreal but one thing thing seems clear to me, you are still with me and you will always be with me, even in your absence you will continue to help, strengthen, and inspire us all who believe in you still. we will try to be the people you loved in us, we will try to live without reservation and with love and respect like you always have. i am so grateful for everyday and everyword, every sile and every tender touch. you will always be the king of my heart. |
| Nic |
posted 9/2/04 11:31 AM
Oh we never know where life will take us I know it's just a ride on the wheel. And we never know when death will shake us And we wonder how it will feel. So goodbye my friend I know I'll never see you again But the time together through all the years Will take away these tears It's OK now... Goodbye my friend I see a lot of things that make me crazy And I guess I held on to you I could of run away and left Well, maybe... But it wasn't time we both knew So goodbye my friend I know I'll never see you again But the love you gave me through all the years Will take away these tears It's now... Goodbye my friend Life's so fragile and love's so pure We can't hold on but we try We watch how quickly it disappears And we never know why But I'm OK now Goodbye my friend. I can go now Goodbye my friend. |
| momma |
posted 9/5/04 2:02 PM
I miss you so much it hurts!All your life you saved people, by words and deeds. Your experience as a Life-guard and Captain was second to none.Instinctively you always knew what needed to be done. How was it that the same did not apply in your moment of need? Our life was centered around Steve. Now we long for your voice and laughter. You were a virtual paradigm for success.We lost a great Son,a young man of wisdom and comfort. A man who did not feed off his fellow man but was content to let them nourish themselves from the wellspring of his soul. The pure stream that flowed from our beloved Son has dried up forever. All that remains is the stream of memories. Each waking moment I long for you and all the Loving memories of our wonderful family. Everyday I remember you telling me by mom I love you! I love you miss you and thank you for the time we had togeather. Love Eternally, Mom |
| BING |
posted 9/5/04 9:19 PM
Mally Family, A few of us were thinking about establishing a scholarship in Steve's name at Binghamton. I realize that right now may not be a good time for you or your family. Nonetheless, we won't do anything until we hear what his family would like. My deepest sympathies to your family. Mallo was a shining star to all of us….. |
| Marcia Isserlis |
posted 9/11/04 1:16 AM
I did not know Steve that well but I trusted Adam's judgement of a very good friendship he had with Steve. I know how hurt all of the boys are right now and you will never forget the love you have for eachother. I especially want to send my deepest sympathy to Steve's family and to let Ira,Ossie,Melissa and the rest of the family that I am always here to give you any support that you may need in the future. |
| Melissa |
posted 9/13/04 12:43 AM
Steve, I was just sitting here in my living room looking over at the chandelier that hangs over my dining room table. I was remembering the day you hung it for me. The memory is so clear and vivid. I see you standing on the ladder all tangled in the long wires and chain link. Your cell phone kept ringing (everyone was looking for the Mallo as usual) and with each call you would simply reply “I’m a bit tied up right now I’ll call you back.” And you would hang up the phone and we would start cracking up because you literary were tied up. But you finally got the lamp hung. You knew which wires to connect. And how to connect the top thing to the ceiling. You were always surprising me with all the things you could do. You were such a natural. Good at everything you attempted.. Alex thinks of you all the time. He climbs up on the piano bench and takes your picture down. He points at it and then scrunches his nose and eye’s and I say “that’s Uncle Steve” then he kisses your picture and puts it back down. So you see Steve, your spirit and your memories are still here. Even though we can no longer touch you we can still see you. We see your dimples appear as you start to crack a smile. We see your face light up as you begin to laugh. And we remember how you could bring hummer to anything. So we honor you Steve, by smiling when we think of you and our 23 years of amazing memories. Love, Melissa |
| Juice |
posted 9/14/04 6:03 PM
Part of me is missing although my heart and shoulders bear more weight Could I have done more to save you or was it all just fate Everytime I think of that night it makes me crazy My mind gets cloudy and my eyes get hazy Left with so many questions and so much confusion I see you standing there smiling but it is now just an illusion Its taken all my strength to try and let go Your laughter still fills my ears but now as an echoe Your footprints on my mind from you walking around in my head Memories of things you did and things you said Thoughts of fun I thought could never be killed Now left with a void that can never be filled I walk around some days with my shoulders hung Searching the words you never wrote and songs never sung Without you bright colors seem a little more grey Even though I know you wouldn't want it that way You would want us all to keep living life worthwhile And remember you always with a great big smile I hope you are there to greet me in the end Until we meet again goodbye my friend |
| strouzer |
posted 10/7/04 5:53 AM
i never looked up to someone as much as i looked up to steve. he was the greatest wrestler, funniest guy, and best friend i ever knew. when i was a freshman he took me under his wing and helped make my first year in high school one of the best years i ever had. he didnt have to help me out the way he did, but he did because thats the kind of person he was. this can be said about the whole mally family. theyre truly an amazing group of people, and i have nothing but admiration and respect for all of them. its tough coming to grips with his passing, but its safe to say that, through his family and all of his friends, mallo will always live on. |
| pugilist at rest |
posted 10/11/04 2:57 AM
Steve, For a long while not a day went by when it did not hurt when I thought of the fact that I would never laugh again at one of your many jokes and routines. Yet, I soon realized that not a day had gone by that I hadn’t laughed at a memory we shared or a joke that you told. Hell, every time I think of you and Connor doing one of your “Murphy” Cop routines I laugh out loud. I laugh out loud when I remember Powder Puff and you dressed up as Gene Siskel. I laugh when I remember all of the Festivus’s we shared. I laugh when I remember your goat impersonation. Mally, you were always a good friend. The center of a group that I am too far away from. Steve, every time I came home either from Minnesota or Maryland the first time I went out and saw all my friends was at your house; the ‘Palace’ to be exact. Every time I came home I looked forward to this initial visit. I always had to contain my excitement during the short trip from your wooden back gate to the sliding glass door. Your presence and the palace were always comforting. Each time I entered it always helped me realize the importance of friendship and shared memories. Simply, the importance of being around people that care about you. Of course my life like everyone else’s you affected is less bright. But, as I progress through the sadness each day I laugh more and hurt less. If the hurt will ever disappear, I am not sure. I am sure the laughter won’t. I miss you. Langino. |
| Jill Mally |
posted 11/26/04 1:06 AM
Stevie...It's our first Thanksgiving without you, and it's sadly appropriate that our familly chose to sit this one out. We couldn't find much to be Thankfull for. But I will always cherish the memories of your face accross the table from mine, making jokes and wry observations throughout the meal. And when you and Melissa were younger, cheating through Chutes and Ladders until it was time for red jello and lots of whip cream for dessert. At least I know that Heaven is going to be well catered with a great sound track as long as they let you plan the party! Pet Godiva for me! xoxo Aunt Jill |
| Juice |
posted 11/30/04 10:13 PM
Steve, It is now the first thanksgiving we have all been home and had our usual reunion without you. I almost half expected to see you next to me at the bar as partake in our usual pre-thanksgiving downtown Huntington ritual, its definitely not the same without you. It was good to see your family and sit in the "palace" again as coincidentally "Red Dawn" was the cemetery, I could feel your prescence and it was comfort going back to the city knowing you were still around watchin over us. Anyway Happy Thanksgiving Steve, we all miss you, see you at Festivus. Justin |
| Nic |
posted 1/5/05 10:20 AM
And being alone is the best way to be. When I'm by myself it's the best way to be. When I'm all alone it's the best way to be. When I'm by myself nobody else can say... Me, I'm a part of your circle of friends and we notice you don't come around. I miss you so much, Mallo. ~Forever in my Heart~ |
| Nic |
posted 1/5/05 10:24 AM
Circle Me, I'm a part of your circle of friends and we notice you don't come around Me, I think it all depends on you touching ground with us. But, I quit. I give up. Nothing's good enough for anybody else it seems. And I quit. I give up. Nothing's good enough for anybody else it seems. And being alone is the best way to be. When I'm by myself it's the best way to be. When I'm all alone it's the best way to be. When I'm by myself nobody else can say goodbye. Everything is temporary anyway. When the streets are wet -- the color slip into the sky. But I don't know why that means you and I are - that means you and.... I quit -- I give up. Nothin's good enough for anybody else it seems. But I quit. I give up. Nothing's good enough for anybody else it seems. And being alone is the best way to be. When I'm by myself it's the best way to be. When I'm all alone it's the best way to be. When I'm by myself nobody else can say... Me, I'm a part of your circle of friends and we notice you don't come around. Halalalalalala "Circle"/Edie Brickell I miss you so much, Mallo. ~Forever in my Heart~ |
| carmy |
posted 1/27/05 5:15 AM
hhhhhhhhheeeelllllooooooo babbbbbay. if i try hard enough i can still hear your voice saying that to me. i miss you so much, more than you know, and probably more than anyone will ever understand. since i always felt such a connection to you that was indescribable... i guess i can just leave it as i was your special ladyfriend. i had a pleasant surprise this week, a booklet of my cd's was recovered, and in it was 2 cd's you had made for me, sublime live & rare, and my velvet underground, so since then i've been jammin & thinking of you, even more than usual. i babysit alex sometimes and its amazing how he is just a little mallo in the making. i'll take him for a drive in melissa's car & in it will be a cd you made her (what a good brother) and i end up laughing and crying. a classic song i found on there was "take on me" i dont think i could ever hear it without thinking of you. i remember walking to your house when i was in 9th grade adn you giving me a stand up performance to cheer me up. too many memories to write here but they're all still with me. i still get so sad & its hard for me to deal that you're gone, but i know the big man above had some serious plans for you, if he had to take you so soon. thinking of u in heaven puts a smile on my face, and i know that you would never want me to be sad. i love you & i miss you. <3 your Nico p.s. i'm still waiting for a cameo of you in my dreams ruca. |
| Please Share Your Memories |
posted 2/28/05 5:07 AM
Please Share Your Memories |
| Nic |
posted 2/28/05 5:12 AM
Birthdays do not end with death, But last as long as love, A maelstrom of memories That grace and honor move. And so I celebrate your day By visiting your grave, A place that you have left long since, But is all that I have. Dear spirit, come and join us here, Your loved ones by your stone! Come sweep across the barrier To claim us as your own! Happy birthday, Mallo! It is not just another day! Not even your last night Can take this day away! ~~~Forever In My Heart~~~ Steven Jesse Mally February 28, 1981 - July 24, 2004 |
| Melissa |
posted 2/28/05 6:43 PM
To the greatest brother anyone could ever know. Happy 24th Birthday! Happy 1st Birthday in heaven! I am picturing you enjoying your fudgi the whale birthday cake. Love Eternally, Sis |
| Iss |
posted 3/1/05 3:31 AM
July 5th, 2004 - You and I woke early the day after July 4th, at about 7 am. you, me, and a second generation - sitting on Medalie's covered porch, as the rain fell and the rest of the boys slept on the floor inside and on couches that were too small. We just shot the shit, you and me - like we always did. At the time it wasn't anything new or different, I barely even remember what we talked about that morning. But I remember the feeling I had, the feeling I always had when we hung out. It was a feeling of peace, of being at ease. you took everything as it came and enjoyed every second of it - even when we were hung over and had only slept for 4 hours. I think about that morning a lot - I think about all of our moments a lot. I think about the things that you taught me without ever trying to. I think about you sitting back and playing your guitar, I think about the way you wrote, and the high pitched laugh you let out when you couldn't really control yourself. I think about you and I playing out Samuel L Jackson and Bruce Willis lines in Die Hard with a Vengeance. I think about how you seemed to know every single person in town; how if we were in Huntington, or at Food Works at 3 in the morning - there was always someone coming up to you to re-live a memory you both shared. I think about the way you were with your sister, and Alex, and your mom, and your dad. I think about the way you were with all of us. I try not to think so much about 19 days after that morning, but I can't really help it. I remember every single moment of being with you that day, from the smile on your face when I first pulled up, to your last impromptu jam with Reilly, to parts later on in the night that try as I might, will never leave my memory. They say time heals all wounds. Personally, I think that's a load of shit. This wound will never heal, for as long as I live. I'm learning to live with it though, and for each moment that I think of you and break down, there's now another moment when I can think of you and smile, and thank you for being a part of my life for as long as you were. For the last six months, I've tried so hard to make sense out all this - why things happen, and why you're not around anymore. I guess I'm just starting to realize now that not everything is meant to be figured out - you just have to deal with it as best as you can. Well, I'm trying, but it's tough. The only thing that makes it easier is knowing that somewhere, you're looking down on me, on all of us. I think about the way you treated life; not as a challenge or an obstacle to overcome; but just like all of your friends. You shared with life your intimate secrets and your humor, and at 23, I think you knew a hell of a lot more than most people that have been around for decades longer. Well, I'm rambling now - but it's nice to know that you're out there somewhere, taking it easy for all of us sinners. I miss you. I love you. I'll talk to you soon. Iss |
| Iss |
posted 3/1/05 3:34 AM
I forgot to say one more thing. Happy Birthday. I wouldn't worry too much, being 24 is for suckers. My guess is it's all down hill from here. |
| Ellstein |
posted 3/24/05 8:00 PM
Listening to some velvet underground Steve and thinking about you, miss ya buddy. |
| pugilist at rest |
posted 4/26/05 10:55 PM
Steve, Great new song. I now expect remixes of all the old ones.... Miss ya buddy, Gino |
| IRA MALLY |
posted 7/22/05 2:51 PM
thank you all for your participation in the first annual steven j mally golf outing.i know in my heart that steve would have been pleased to see all his close friends togeather again. i am certain that he would want his friends to always keep in touch with each other.this annual golf outing will be a perfect venue for reunion and remembering. i also want to give special thanks to connor and my son in law gary for the hard work and love that they put into creating this event. thank you ira |
| Gembala |
posted 7/26/05 1:11 PM
Yeah nice work guys, good day had by all. Even though Stevie wasn't the most avid golfer, I'm sure he was out there with all of us. Probably sitting in the cart making fun of my foursome - but clearly routing for Team Centerport to prevail over those Bizarro's...We miss you Mallo... |
| Melissa Levick |
posted 3/1/06 0:35 AM
Happy Birthday little Bro! Love you and miss you always. I hope your enjoying your Fudgie the Whale ice cream cake. Love, Melissa |
| Steve Rathbauer |
posted 4/26/06 6:23 AM
Hey buddy, It still seems like the other day that you were over my house hanging out with my brother...and would always find the time to wrestle a little with me and "toughin' me up" as you would always say. We all miss you so much and your presence can never be replaced. I wish you could still be here with us and share crazy stories, make us laugh, or just eat ridiculously fast at our dinner table like it was your last meal hehe. Having the same first name as you is hard sometimes, and there isnt a moment i dont think of you. My life has changed so much since your passing and there is not one day i try to pass off as being an ordinary day. You gave an example of living every day like your last, and i intend to pass on the legacy that is Steve Mally. Well i think for now this is all i can bear to write...but we'll cross paths one day in the future, and have another wrestle off. Love and Miss Always, Steve Rathbauer |
| NIC |
posted 7/17/06 3:05 AM
Looking forward to seeing everyone for the 2nd Annual Steven J. Mally Memorial Golf Outing on July 20th.... http://mallymemorial.org |
| jessy |
posted 7/24/07 11:51 PM
saw some dirty sanchezes at the beach swimming in their white undies, and naturally i thought of you. i miss you |
| Aunt Jill |
posted 7/23/08 0:55 AM
Stevie- It's been a while since I've been able to read these posts. But today I can't stop missing you and thinking about how often G-d screws up and takes the good ones and leaves us here on earth to deal with the scum! At least we have tomorrow's Golf outing and the dinner afterwards where I plan to toast you (several times) in absentia. What hurts the most is that I was just getting to know you as a "grown-up" instead of that adorable little boy that I keep seeing in my head. And that I know I would have loved the Man even more than I loved the boy...Just as Melissa and I have become good friends. |
| Aunt Jill |
posted 7/23/08 1:04 AM
P.S. Forgot to mention that Mallomar, your furry namesake is absolutely beautiful. She is a Platinum Burmese Cat, who will be 4 years old on 8/20/04. A true Diva who loves bellyrubs. Anyone wanting pics can email me at godivathecat@nyc.rr.com. |
| Dave Johnson |
posted 2/12/11 10:39 PM
We all miss you now, too, Jill. Thank you for every moment you shared with us. I will always love you. |
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