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| Author | Topic: RElationships with non witches |
| Ferntree |
posted 3/29/09 4:33 PM
Well, lets talk men. This could be a long story, but after nearly 18 months of looking at each other, this chap at work and myself seem to be sussing each other out as possible partners. Yes, 18 months just looking in a lustful manner LOL, and we only seem to be sussing each other out; plent of baggage between us. His English is ok but, hes a Polish national, then throw in the whole work thing and that I am 12 years his senior though I beleive he is clueless about this (the skin cream really works well) add that I'm a witch and I dont know it could be interesting or it could be a big mistake. I keep getting these flashes of him.... Lazy Sunday afternoon, laying on the couch, turf fire burning, a good sunday dinner in the rayburn and me mutter something about having to just pop upstairs (to my alter) to do a quick bit of witchery. Is anyone else with a non witch/wizard and how do you handle it, how do you tell them with out spending time in the local asylum..... |
| Asherah |
posted 3/29/09 11:55 PM
My husband was non pagan but very supportive of my Craft. I think you need to find out how this guy leans. Is he bound to a religion that might create problems between you? So many people are afraid of the Craft because they don't take the time to learn about it. Even if he's a non-practitioner, if he learns more about it he may not mind that you're a witch. But, if he's a hardcore Christian or something else, there could indeed be problems. And if there are, oh well, he's just not the guy for you. There's nothing like open-mindedness and acceptance in a man to make me feel twittered. Start slow. Using the word witch can scare people. I tend to use the word pagan first and then see which way the wind blows. Good luck and keep me posted on your progress. |
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