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| Author | Topic: relationship help needed |
| Tracy |
posted 12/9/09 0:05 AM
Please pray that my new relationship makes it through our first 'icky challenge' which happened Friday night (involving a moment of mistrust and insecurity on my part), and every other challenge that comes our way. My boyfriend, 'S' has backed right off and gone into his proctective cave. I've had no contact from him since Monday night. I stopped texting yesterday afternoon (Tuesday) to give him space etc. because he was not responding to my positive texts during the day. On the wkd I did my best to apologise and resolve the issue through healthy discussion, however he was not a keen participant. He knows that I love him and that I want to be in the relationship. I know he loves me because he told me twice on Sunday and first thing Monday morning. However, I know he feels afraid and does not know whether he wants to stay in the relationship or not now. For some reason he can't seem to handle 'issues' about us, or talk to me to resolve. Please pray that his fears are cast out, and replaced with courage and confidence in our relationship. I miss him and want him back. This silence is a killer and I'm suffering because of it. I feel rejected. He is a wonderful man even though he isn't great at communicating and resolving 'issues' about us yet. I have not experienced the silent treatment before and am not sure how to cope with it. All your prayers are appreciated. God Bless. |
| Mary |
posted 12/9/09 3:39 AM
cise to seek God in this now just overing you in prayer. The Lords will be done in this relationship. You are wise to seek God in this, now just wait and trust on Him to restore. in Christ, Mary |
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